Being limited to be likeable

Humility does not require total acceptance of blame. You can be humble without being labeled “the problem.” In fact, if you want anything to change, you’re actually better off NOT internalizing such a thing.

Know your role and stay in your lane

It's one of my favorite phrases borrowed from the military, typically used to remind service members what's their responsibility and what's not. At first glance it can potentially seem condescending, no? I actually think there's magic in those words many likely miss.